Saturday, February 11, 2012

A Lil Tape WorksToo...


People say the beginnings of a relationship are the most important. Nah, I don't believe that. I think almost 2 years into it, on a cold Saturday night, without a holiday telling us to do this or that, nowhere to be, just chilling at home. A few minutes earlier in the car, CJ said, "Let's go home," meaning my home. Earlier than that he said, "I wonder what type of music our kids will listen to." Just know he made me laugh as he  tried to sing "Immigrant song" by Led Zepplin and do the "Ahhhh" part. Wow he was off key but it was adorable. These are the moments that make up my lil relationship...

This was a weird week for me because of Cj & I's argument. We didn't see each other til Wednesday, but he just seemed out of it. I was like Ah, Crap, what the hell...But alas I taped together my broken locket that CJ still doesn't know unfortunately broke again. He bought me a heart key necklace last Christmas and it seems to be the mood ring for our relationship. It broke last year and then suddenly we were on a break. When we were back on, I admitted to him it had broken. He got it fixed for me for my birthday. We were back & better than ever.

Now...I put tape on the broken locket this week hoping it would work in more ways than one...

However, the tape was not needed in our relationship or did it... Apparently the reason why he was acting weird had NOTHING TO DO with last weekend, it was due to the fact that on that night we had a fight, he lost his debit card. He fessed up to being sad because he wasn't able to order me the valentine's day gift he wanted to get me and the card he made for me wouldn't be ready in time either for next Tuesday. I laughed and he was asked why. I let it all go, hugged him, and just said I love you. We were fine after all...

So tonight we are just chilling out and enjoying each other's company and chilling at home...I like the sound of that. =)


1 comment:

  1. I'm glad to hear things worked out and that he was more frustrated at something else and not you. :).
    I get what you mean about relationships. It's the simple moments that make it up. The little things you remember and can feel a spark. I like big romantic gestures but I think I love the little cute moments more.
    (had one of those this morning so it's been on my mind)

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