tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345726196560696930.post6772623764107618245..comments2023-10-20T08:50:06.275-04:00Comments on Lemanie's Randomness: How to Let it Go....Lemaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13167867886015707501noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345726196560696930.post-8213551758291816752012-02-09T09:07:18.832-05:002012-02-09T09:07:18.832-05:00I hate hate hate fights, probably because of how m...I hate hate hate fights, probably because of how my mum use to fight with my dad. She'd pick a fight about anything tiny but then it would just blow and blow from there to cover every little thing he'd done wrong since the last argument. Then she'd blank him for days. And I just hate that, its not healthy to have that kind of argument in my view. Luckily we don't ever get that grumpy with each other, we both stop before it gets that bad. Luckily.Rachaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17128754833604987577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345726196560696930.post-65278694576028225062012-02-09T08:56:23.911-05:002012-02-09T08:56:23.911-05:00I almost always let things go because I hate fight...I almost always let things go because I hate fighting. Not that I'm in a relationship to HAVE to let things go.<br /><br />I get you on what you say about all men not always acting the same and likewise for women. My most recent ex is really like a girl in a lot of ways - always overthinking everything (more than even I do). He thought himself out of the relationship and then was the one who cried when we broke up. I've never known a guy to act like that. Then again, maybe that's how Finnish men act and maybe it's normal to them. Who knows. My point anyway is that I agree with you on that.Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04425977546505490830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345726196560696930.post-76457904438512027812012-02-09T08:30:19.641-05:002012-02-09T08:30:19.641-05:00My husband is the peacemaker. He does what it tak...My husband is the peacemaker. He does what it takes to make sure our disagreements don't escalate. However, when he DOES get mad, I know it's for real, and I take heed.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05940369749048830429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5345726196560696930.post-32661765074732459162012-02-08T22:28:19.334-05:002012-02-08T22:28:19.334-05:00Fortunately Sandy and I are rarely in a pissy mood...Fortunately Sandy and I are rarely in a pissy mood at the same time but regardless, when we feel ourselves getting aggravated about something stupid we just spend time apart until we simmer down. If it's something significant we'll hash it out but more often than not it isn't worth fighting about.Barryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04641761671561288846noreply@blogger.com